About
Who is actually writing all this
The Silverback's Guide is written by Peter Bowman, an Australian author. Silverback is the series' word for a way of behaving, not a bloke you have to become.
In the books’ own words: take responsibility for your part, use your strength with care, keep learning, and leave room for other people. You do not need to have everything sorted. You do need to become interested in whether your actions bear any resemblance to the standards you announce.
Series 1 is ten books. The Expanded Manifesto holds the map. Nine companion volumes spend longer inside each arena: being a man, money and investing, selling, conflict, bullies, dating, divorce, leadership and spotting a con. Series 2, covering fatherhood, the hidden war and mateship, is in the works.
The Silverback says
You do not have to finish becoming a better man before doing something decent today. Find the thing in front of you that is yours to do.
A note on the research
The books are written in plain English, with Australian satire and fictional examples. FACT panels and numbered references identify outside evidence or official guidance, from sources such as the Australian Bureau of Statistics, ASIC Moneysmart, the ATO, the ACCC, Scamwatch and the National Anti-Scam Centre, the eSafety Commissioner, Safe Work Australia, Healthdirect and the family courts. Other passages express the author’s perspective and suggested practices. Sources and service details were checked in September 2026; organisations cited do not endorse the books.
The disclaimer, in plain words
The scenes are fictional illustrations, not case histories or accounts of the author’s personal life. The books are general information and commentary, not individual medical, psychological, legal, tax or financial advice. Get qualified help where your circumstances require it. Some chapters deal with distress, suicide, separation and family conflict; you can pause, skip a chapter or seek support. If life is in immediate danger, call 000. For 24/7 crisis support, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.
The publisher
© 2026 Peter Bowman. Published by Silverback Books Pty Ltd. Sold by Gorilla Unit Consulting Limited, Sydney, Australia. Questions to support@thesilverbacksguide.com.
The Nine Arenas
Every battle a man will ever fight
01
Being a Man
Character, purpose and the daily work of becoming dependable, including asking for help.
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02
Money
Habits, risk and financial decisions, from the bottom of the world.
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03
Selling
Listening, explaining value and following through. Remember the person across the table.
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04
Conflict
Difficult conversations, composure and repair, without demanding the last word.
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05
Bullies
From the sandpit to the nursing home. Strength without becoming another bully.
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06
Dating
Honesty, curiosity, consent and rejection. Meet people without an exhausting performance.
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07
Divorce
Separation, children and rebuilding. Keep your head and protect what matters.
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08
Leadership
Decisions, responsibility and listening. The standard others experience.
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09
Spotting a Con
Pressure, flattery and missing information. Pause before committing.
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