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The Silverback's Guide: The Expanded Manifesto
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70
principles
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Book One of 8 · The lead volume

The Silverback's Guide

The Expanded Manifesto

One voice. Seven battles. One way of being a man.

Six men a day in Australia die by suicide. One in three first marriages ends in divorce. Most men over forty have stopped making new friends entirely. The manifesto looks at that wreckage with real data, not vibes, then hands you the seven arenas every Australian bloke will fight in: being a man, money, selling, conflict, bullies, dating and divorce. Satire wrapped around real research, written in a voice you'd actually want to have a beer with.

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Who it is for

The bloke who is a bit lost, a bit numb, or quietly carrying something heavy. And the mate who wants to help him.

Inside the book

  1. 01

    Part One: the diagnostic. What a Silverback is, the state of modern man, why "man up" is getting blokes killed, the manosphere grift, what your grandfather knew

  2. 02

    Part Two: the seven arenas, each with its laws, tools and word-for-word scripts

  3. 03

    Part Three: the through-line, how to save your mate, and the Seventy Principles

  4. 04

    The three actions this week, the litany, and the crisis numbers to keep in your phone

The Silverback says

A Silverback is not made by his triumphs. He is made by his collapses, and by the fact that he got back up afterwards without becoming a complete prick about it.

From the back cover

Six men a day in Australia die by suicide. The single biggest lever we have on that number is you.

The mate who notices. The mate who asks. Chapter fifteen is called How to Save Your Mate, and it is why the whole series exists. If you are sharing the book because a mate is struggling, the Silverback considers that a feature, not a piracy issue.

Not therapy. Not financial advice. Not legal counsel. A conversation between two blokes about the things that actually matter, with the research cited and the phone numbers printed.

The Silverback's Guide: back cover

The Complete Library

Read in any order. Skip what is not relevant. Come back when the next arena lights up.

Every volume in the series, delivered together: the Manifesto and all seven field manuals as PDFs, in your inbox within a minute. Lend them to mates. Argue with them. Underline them. Spill beer on them.

  • The Silverback's Guide
  • The Silverback's Guide to Being a Man
  • The Silverback's Guide to Money
  • The Silverback's Guide to Selling
  • The Silverback's Guide to Conflict
  • The Silverback's Guide to Bullies
  • The Silverback's Guide to Dating
  • The Silverback's Guide to Divorce

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The Books

The rest of the series

Read in any order. Come back when the next arena lights up.

All eight for A$99
  1. 01

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    One book, or all eight. If none is on fire, start with the Manifesto.

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  3. 03

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Before you buy

What do I get when I buy?+

A PDF of each book, delivered instantly. After payment you land on a download page and the same links are emailed to you. Read on a phone, tablet, laptop or e-reader, and print whatever you want to spill beer on.

Is the full library worth it?+

If more than four arenas apply to you, yes: the library costs less than buying five books separately and you get all eight. If only one arena is on fire, buy that book. Come back for the next one when it lights up.

Can I buy it as a gift?+

Yes. Use his email address at checkout and the download links go straight to him. Or buy it to your own address and forward the link.

What if my download link expires?+

Open the receipt email and use the "Your downloads" link; it re-checks your order and issues fresh links. Or contact us with the email you paid with and we will sort it.

Is this therapy, legal advice or financial advice?+

No. It is a conversation between two blokes about the things that actually matter, with the research cited. It tells you plainly when to see a GP, a lawyer, a mediator or a licensed adviser. If you are in crisis right now, put the site down and call Lifeline on 13 11 14.

Refunds?+

Digital books cannot be returned once downloaded, but if the file is broken, you bought the wrong book by mistake, or the book is not what the page said it was, email us within 14 days and we will make it right.

The Silverback's Guide: The Expanded Manifesto