
Book One · The lead volume
The Manifesto
Nine arenas. One code. A standard worth practising.
The lead volume and the foundation of the first ten books. The code, the map of all nine arenas and ninety principles to practise, in one place.

Arena Eight · Book 9 of 10
How to Lead Without Looking Like a Wanker or Sounding Like an American.
Stepping out of the shadows without the costume.
There are two kinds of leadership books: the American in the black turtleneck, and the academic one that cites 412 papers and nobody finishes. This is neither. It is for the bloke who has been quietly running things from the cheap seats his whole life and would rather chew his own arm off than call himself a leader. What holds him back is often not failure. It is the fear of being seen. Here is how to lead without looking like a wanker, sounding like an American, or becoming the tosser you used to take the piss out of: go first, make the hard call, and follow through on Monday.
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The reluctant boss, the new manager, the founder rehearsing tomorrow's speech at midnight, and the bloke everyone already rings when something goes pear-shaped.
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What leadership actually is, the enigma industry, and the costumes it sells
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The translation bureau: what to take from Goggins, Robbins, Brené, Sinek, Jocko and your pop
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The seven fears of being seen, from looking like a wanker to the mate who will take the piss
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Speaking in a room that frightens you, the four-step hard call protocol, hiring, firing and the 3am founder mind
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The five people who will tell you the truth, legacy, and how to save the mate who won't lead himself
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The fifty laws and the Monday morning leadership kit: the clear brief, delegation and the weekly conversation
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The Nine Arenas
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Being a Man
Character, purpose and the daily work of becoming dependable, including asking for help.
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02
Money
Habits, risk and financial decisions, from the bottom of the world.
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Selling
Listening, explaining value and following through. Remember the person across the table.
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Conflict
Difficult conversations, composure and repair, without demanding the last word.
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Bullies
From the sandpit to the nursing home. Strength without becoming another bully.
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06
Dating
Honesty, curiosity, consent and rejection. Meet people without an exhausting performance.
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Divorce
Separation, children and rebuilding. Keep your head and protect what matters.
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Leadership
Decisions, responsibility and listening. The standard others experience.
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Spotting a Con
Pressure, flattery and missing information. Pause before committing.
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Book One · The lead volume
Nine arenas. One code. A standard worth practising.
The lead volume and the foundation of the first ten books. The code, the map of all nine arenas and ninety principles to practise, in one place.

Arena 1
The standard you practise when nobody is arranging an audience.
Integrity, mental health, fatherhood, friendship, work, failure and starting again. The first arena taken deeper, in twenty-three chapters about the man people actually live with.

Arena 2
Make money your tool, not your master.
Household basics, super, the ASX, index funds, global investing, property, bonds, risk, tax and crypto, with the foundations laid first. Twenty-one chapters, forty golden rules, three field sheets.






Arena 9
Fog, speed and shame, and the answer to each.
Cialdini's six levers. The scam factory. The Man in the Lanyard. Romance, crypto and the changed bank detail. Twenty chapters, fifty laws of not getting done, and twenty-five lines for pausing, checking or declining.
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