The Silverback’s Guide Series
Arena Six
The Silverback’s Guide to
Dating
Connection in the age of the algorithm.
Arena Six · Book 7 of 8
Arena Six. The Connection Arena.
Connection in the age of the algorithm.
Whether you are 24 and single, 47 and divorced, 62 and widowed, or 35 and eleven years in with the same woman, you are in the relationship arena. Get this one wrong and the rest of the wins feel hollow. Get it right and the losses elsewhere feel survivable. No pickup lines and no rage: the Four Horsemen and their antidotes, the 5:1 ratio, honesty as a filter, the six-month rule for single dads, and the truth that falling in love is chemistry and staying in love is practice.
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See the libraryWho it is for
Single blokes, divorced blokes, widowed blokes, and married blokes who want to stay that way.
01
Be a man worth meeting before you go meeting
02
The Gottman Four Horsemen and how to reverse each one
03
Online dating and first dates without the performance
04
Single dads, older Silverbacks and dating after divorce
05
The long game: appreciation, anticipation and the enemy called complacency
The Silverback says
Falling in love is chemistry. Staying in love is practice.
The Seven Arenas
01
Being a Man
The internal arena. Who are you when nobody is watching?
The field manual →
02
Money
Runway, super, the ASX, and not lying awake at 3am.
The field manual →
03
Selling
Every conversation where someone agrees to something is a sale.
The field manual →
04
Conflict
Your wife. Your boss. Your kids. The bloke at the registration desk.
The field manual →
05
Bullies
From the sandpit to the nursing home. How to handle them without becoming one.
The field manual →
06
Dating
Get this one wrong and the rest of the wins feel hollow.
The field manual →
07
Divorce
The most expensive event most Australian men will ever experience.
The field manual →
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Every volume in the series, delivered together: the Manifesto and all seven field manuals as PDFs, in your inbox within a minute. Lend them to mates. Argue with them. Underline them. Spill beer on them.
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The Books
Read in any order. Come back when the next arena lights up.
Book One · The lead volume
One voice. Seven battles. One way of being a man.
The lead volume. The thesis, the map, and the most important content from all seven field manuals in one book. Most blokes who only read one read this one.
The Silverback’s Guide Series
Arena One
The Silverback’s Guide to
Being a Man
The foundation everything else stands on.
Arena 1
The foundation everything else stands on.
Mental health, suicide prevention, fatherhood, friendship, integrity, purpose, legacy. Fail here and the other six arenas collapse like a deck of cards in a strong wind.
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Arena Two
The Silverback’s Guide to
Money
Building the empire from the bottom of the world.
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Arena Three
The Silverback’s Guide to
Selling
The skill that pays for everything.
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Arena Four
The Silverback’s Guide to
Conflict
Winning without burning the house down.
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Arena Five
The Silverback’s Guide to
Bullies
Standing up without becoming one.
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Arena Seven
The Silverback’s Guide to
Divorce
The arena nobody briefed you on.
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A PDF of each book, delivered instantly. After payment you land on a download page and the same links are emailed to you. Read on a phone, tablet, laptop or e-reader, and print whatever you want to spill beer on.
If more than four arenas apply to you, yes: the library costs less than buying five books separately and you get all eight. If only one arena is on fire, buy that book. Come back for the next one when it lights up.
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No. It is a conversation between two blokes about the things that actually matter, with the research cited. It tells you plainly when to see a GP, a lawyer, a mediator or a licensed adviser. If you are in crisis right now, put the site down and call Lifeline on 13 11 14.
Digital books cannot be returned once downloaded, but if the file is broken, you bought the wrong book by mistake, or the book is not what the page said it was, email us within 14 days and we will make it right.