Book One · The lead volume
The Manifesto
Nine arenas. One code. A standard worth practising.
The lead volume and the foundation of the first ten books. The code, the map of all nine arenas and ninety principles to practise, in one place.
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Arena Seven · Book 8 of 10
The Silverback's Guide to Divorce
Keep your head. Protect what matters. Rebuild with dignity.
Count the cost. Keep your head.
Divorce can make a capable man feel as though somebody has moved every switch in the house overnight. This Australian field manual is for blokes considering it, blokes already in it and blokes standing in a rental kitchen wondering which drawer the spatulas go in. It puts safety before the budget, separates the four jobs (divorce, property, parenting and child support) and works through costs with clearly labelled illustrations. It is not legal advice, and WA has separate rules for some matters, so it helps you ask a lawyer better questions instead of playing one. If it is over, your conduct still belongs to you.
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The bloke considering it. The bloke already in it. The bloke pretending he's not in it. The mate who gets the 11 pm call and puts the kettle on.
Inside the book
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The numbers: legal fees, the second household and a three-column budget
02
Property settlement, super, the family home and yes, the dog
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Child support and time with the kids: two different issues
04
The grass-is-greener delusion, the midlife crisis and the affair maths
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Before you nuke it, and what to do if it is already happening
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Your first 30 days, the money page and the first advice appointment
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The Nine Arenas
The other arenas
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Being a Man
Character, purpose and the daily work of becoming dependable, including asking for help.
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Money
Habits, risk and financial decisions, from the bottom of the world.
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Selling
Listening, explaining value and following through. Remember the person across the table.
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Conflict
Difficult conversations, composure and repair, without demanding the last word.
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05
Bullies
From the sandpit to the nursing home. Strength without becoming another bully.
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Dating
Honesty, curiosity, consent and rejection. Meet people without an exhausting performance.
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07
Divorce
Separation, children and rebuilding. Keep your head and protect what matters.
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Leadership
Decisions, responsibility and listening. The standard others experience.
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Spotting a Con
Pressure, flattery and missing information. Pause before committing.
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The Books
The rest of the series
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Arena 1
Being a Man
The standard you practise when nobody is arranging an audience.
Integrity, mental health, fatherhood, friendship, work, failure and starting again. The first arena taken deeper, in twenty-three chapters about the man people actually live with.
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Money & Investing
Make money your tool, not your master.
Household basics, super, the ASX, index funds, global investing, property, bonds, risk, tax and crypto, with the foundations laid first. Twenty-one chapters, forty golden rules, three field sheets.
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Leadership
Stepping out of the shadows without the costume.
The lie of leadership. Goggins, Robbins, Brené and Jocko, translated. The seven fears of being seen. Hard calls, hiring, firing and the 3am founder mind. Twenty-eight chapters, fifty laws.
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Spotting a Con
Fog, speed and shame, and the answer to each.
Cialdini's six levers. The scam factory. The Man in the Lanyard. Romance, crypto and the changed bank detail. Twenty chapters, fifty laws of not getting done, and twenty-five lines for pausing, checking or declining.
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