Dating Advice for Men · Palmerston, Northern Territory
Dating Advice for Men in Palmerston, Northern Territory
Connection in the age of the algorithm. Written in Australia, read in Palmerston, Northern Territory.
Dating is harder than it has ever been, and that is the data, not drama. The structures that used to introduce people have been replaced by apps whose business model depends on you not finding what you're looking for. The Silverback's Guide to Dating is for the bloke who is 24 and single, 47 and divorced, 62 and widowed, or eleven years in and drifting: be a man worth meeting before you go meeting, learn the Four Horsemen and their antidotes, and treat staying in love as a practice. Available to every bloke in Palmerston, Northern Territory tonight, as a PDF.
Twelve chapters, forty principles of love that lasts. Honest profiles, first dates that are conversations rather than performances, the six-month rule for single dads, and the enemy that is not affairs but complacency.
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6
men a day in Australia die by suicide
ABS Causes of Death, cited in the Manifesto ch. 2
1 in 3
first marriages in Australia ends in divorce
ABS, cited in the Manifesto ch. 2
15%
of men now have no close friends, up from 3% in 1990
Manifesto ch. 2
3.3 yrs
average job tenure for an Australian worker
OECD data, cited in the Manifesto ch. 2
The data is grim. The wreckage is everywhere. And the way out is exactly the same as it has always been: one good decision, repeated, until the decisions add up to a life.
Dating Advice for Men in Palmerston, Northern Territory
The Silverback's Guide to Dating is a PDF, so a bloke in Palmerston, Northern Territory has it on his phone a minute after paying, whether he is reading on the train, in the ute, or in the spare room at 2am. Every statistic in it is Australian and sourced; every case study is anonymised; every chapter ends with something to do this week.
Use the links below to move between Palmerston and the surrounding areas, or to switch arenas without leaving Palmerston.
What dating advice for men should actually cover
What is inside The Silverback's Guide to Dating.
01
The Gottman Four Horsemen and how to reverse each one
02
Online dating and first dates without the performance
03
Single dads, older Silverbacks and dating after divorce
04
The 5:1 ratio and the daily practice of staying in love
Arena 6 · The field manual
The Silverback's Guide to Dating
Connection in the age of the algorithm.
Gottman. Approach. Online dating. First dates. Single parents. Older Silverbacks. The long game. Communication. Twelve chapters, forty principles of love that lasts.
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The Seven Arenas
The other six arenas
Each arena has its own laws, opponents and terrain, so each has its own book.
01
Being a Man
The internal arena. Who are you when nobody is watching?
The field manual →
02
Money
Runway, super, the ASX, and not lying awake at 3am.
The field manual →
03
Selling
Every conversation where someone agrees to something is a sale.
The field manual →
04
Conflict
Your wife. Your boss. Your kids. The bloke at the registration desk.
The field manual →
05
Bullies
From the sandpit to the nursing home. How to handle them without becoming one.
The field manual →
06
Dating
Get this one wrong and the rest of the wins feel hollow.
The field manual →
07
Divorce
The most expensive event most Australian men will ever experience.
The field manual →
All 7
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Read in any order. Skip what is not relevant. Come back when the next arena lights up.
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Dating Advice for Men around Palmerston
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